Betty and I are best friends .Our birthdays are on the same days ,so every year we have a birthday party together. But this year ,we had a costume party instead.While we were writing the invitations ,my mum came in and asked ,”Why not invite John?” John had been in our class for only a few months ,but he already getting better grades in math than anyone else in class .I wrinkled(皱起)my nose, ”Mum ,he wears the same pants to school every day. How could he even afford a costume?” Mum said nothing .The next day ,mum gave me a envelope with a shopping certificate in it .” Ithought it would be nice for you to give this to John embarrassed .We discussed it for a long time .Finally ,Betty and I had a good idea.On the day of our party ,kids arrived, dressed differently .John arrived ,in an old sheet (床单),but still in the same brown pants as usual. We danced, ate snacks and played games in groups .Before eating the birthday cake ,Betty said in a loud voice ” Now it is time for the great prize game .It is the following riddle ……”It was a math game ,None of us was surprised when John came up with the right answer first and walked off with the envelope .Everything went on well as we planned. John wore a new pair of pants and a new shirt the next week .He felt happy .So did we.When we help others ,we need to find a proper way ,or we may hurt them in another way贝蒂和我是最好的朋友。我的生日是在同一天,所以我们每年都有一个生日聚会。但今年,我们却有一个化妆舞会。当我们写请柬,妈妈进来问,“为什么不邀请约翰?“约翰已经在我们班上只有几个月,但他已获得更好的成绩,数学比班上其他人。我皱(皱起)我的鼻子,“妈妈,他穿着同样的裤子去学校的每一天。他怎么可能连服装吗?“妈妈什么也没说。第二天,妈妈给了我在这一个购物证明一个信封。“我会为你把这个交给约翰尴尬是很好。我们讨论了很长时间。最后,贝蒂和我有一个好主意。在我们党的一天,孩子们一到,穿着不同。约翰来了,在一个老片(床单),但仍然在同一个棕色的裤子一样。我们跳舞,吃零食和一组玩游戏。在吃生日蛋糕,贝蒂大声说“现在是伟大的有奖游戏时间。它是下面的谜语......“这是一个数学游戏,没有人的时候,约翰想出了正确答案,把信封惊讶。一切都很顺利,我们计划。约翰穿着裤子和下周一件新衬衫,一双新的。他感到很高兴。我们也去了。当我们帮助别人,我们需要找到一个合适的方式,或者我们可以用另一种方式来伤害他们